MONTANA JUDGE G TODD BAUGH MUST RESIGN FOR BLAMING 14 YEAR OLD FOR HER RAPE 3SEP13

THIS IS DISGUSTING. Nobody should ever be blamed for being raped. Cherice Moralez was, by Judge g todd baugh, and she was only 14. But this judge's decision and his actions are especially heinous. Two years after being raped Cherice committed suicide, after never recovering from being raped. The people of Montana and the nation are justified in their outrage. To preserve trust in the judicial system the government of Montana must remove this fool from the bench before he inflicts harm on any other victim of any sexual crime who has the misfortune to appear before him. I hope you will sign this petition calling for the dismissal of this judge from his bench in Montana. And be sure to click the links and read the articles about this travesty of justice.

Something big is happening in Montana: Last week, hundreds of people gathered in Billings to protest Judge G. Todd Baugh's decision that the man who raped his 14-year-old student should only serve 30 days in jail. In his ruling, the judge made horrible comments blaming the girl for her own rape.¹

Montanans of all walks of life have stood up to put a stop to victim-blaming and rape culture, calling on Judge Baugh to resign. The outrage over this case shows just how fed up people are with a culture and legal system that tolerate sexual violence--and the UltraViolet community has been at the forefront of this effort. Since this story broke, more than 63,000 UltraViolet members have signed the petition asking the state's court system to disrobe Judge Baugh.

We're working with local organizers in Montana to deliver the petition to the Montana Judicial Standards Commission in the next few days. If we can get to 75,000 signatures before that, we'll send a message they can't ignore. Can you add your name today?

Add your name.

Thanks for speaking out.

--Nita, Shaunna, Kat, Karin, and Malinda, the UltraViolet team

Sources:

1. Hundreds rally to protest Montana judge over 31-day rape sentence, Reuters, August 29, 2013

P.S. Here's the original email we sent last week about this case and Judge Baugh's horrible ruling:

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Judge G. Todd Baugh sentenced a man to 30 days in jail for raping a 14-year-old girl and then blamed the girl for her own rape. Can you sign the petition demanding that Montana's Judicial Standards Commission and Supreme Court remove him from the bench? Click Here

Dear Craig,

Cherice Moralez was just 14 when her 49-year old teacher repeatedly raped her. Two years later, Cherice committed suicide--and according to her mother, the trauma of rape was a major factor in her death.¹

But on Monday, 5 years after the rape, Billings, Montana Judge G. Todd Baugh sent her rapist to prison for just 30 days. In his ruling, he justified the light sentence because he said the victim was “as much in control of the situation” as her rapist and that she was “older than her chronological age.”²

THIS is rape culture at its worst: when our courts can let a man who raped a child go free after just days in jail and then blame the child for her own rape.

Judge Baugh’s statement has made national news, and outrage in Montana is growing. Under Montana law, the Judicial Standards Commission and Supreme Court can suspend judges.³ And the pressure is mounting on authorities to act--this morning, hundreds of Montanans are expected to protest in downtown Billings.⁴ If tens of thousands of us from all over the country join with local protesters and speak out, we can make sure that the Montana courts disrobe Judge Baugh so he can never let a rapist off the hook again. Can you sign the petition?

Sign the petition demanding that Judge Baugh be removed from the bench.

Cherice Moralez’s mother was in the courtroom when the Judge blamed her daughter for her own rape. “I guess somehow it makes a rape more acceptable if you blame the victim, even if she was only 14,” she said in a written statement after the sentencing.⁵

Originally, Judge Baugh gave the rapist, Stacey Rombard, no jail time at all, sending him to a sex offender rehabilitation program instead. Rombard was back in court after violating the rules of the program--including the provision that bans him from having contact with children.⁶ But Judge Baugh thought he still shouldn't serve his full sentence, suspending all but 31 days and giving him a credit for one day he had already served.

Rape is an epidemic in this country--1 in 5 women has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape.⁷ But less than half of all rape cases are reported, and only 3% of rapists spend a single day in jail.⁸ No wonder so many survivors don’t come forward when the justice system seems stacked against them and a judge can blame a survivor for the attacks against them instead of the actual rapist.

A judge who thinks a 14-year-old girl is to blame for her own rape should not be on the bench. Pressure is mounting in Montana for the court system to do something about this quickly. If we all speak out, we can make sure Judge Baugh is suspended and can never rule on a case like this again. Will you sign the petition?

Add your name.

Thanks for speaking out.

--Nita, Shaunna, Kat, Malinda, and Karin, the UltraViolet team

Sources:

1. Montana judge criticized for 31-day sentence for ex-teacher who raped teen, Reuters, August 28, 2013

2. Ibid.

3. Methods of Judicial Selection: Removal of Judges, American Judicature Society

4. Montana judge criticized for 31-day sentence for ex-teacher who raped teen, Reuters, August 28, 2013

5. Mont. Judge Apologizes for Comments in Teen's Rape, Associated Press, August 28, 2013

6. Ibid.

7. Nearly 1 in 5 Women in U.S. Survey Say They Have Been Sexually Assaulted, New York Times, December 14, 2011

8. Reporting Rates, Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network

“Do you WANT to be made well?” Man, I Wish Jesus Wouldn’t Say Things Like That (a sermon) 5MAI13

HERE is a great sermon by Rev Nadia Bolz-Weber, the Sarcastic Lutheran, about how God sees us and what he will do for us if we let him. As always, I really encourage you to click the link and listen to her sermon....

“Do you WANT to be made well?” Man, I Wish Jesus Wouldn’t Say Things Like That (a sermon)

May 6, 2013 By Nadia Bolz Weber 

2013-05-05 NBW Sermon <—-click here to listen along.

²Now in Jerusalem by the Sheep Gate there is a pool, called in Hebrew Beth-zatha, which has five porticoes. ³In these lay many invalids — blind, lame, and paralyzed. ⁵One man was there who had been ill for thirty-eight years. ⁶When Jesus saw him lying there and knew that he had been there a long time, he said to him, “Do you want to be made well?” ⁷The sick man answered him, “Sir, I have no one to put me into the pool when the water is stirred up; and while I am making my way, someone else steps down ahead of me.” ⁸Jesus said to him, “Stand up, take your mat and walk.” ⁹At once the man was made well, and he took up his mat and began to walk. -John 5:2-8

This weekend at the retreat we kept a running list of overheard quotes from each other. Here are a few for your enjoyment.  There was the person who said “I’m totally making my own deodorant now. Come smell my pits. I smell awesome”

And the guy who got the fire going who said “when you’re this flaming, who needs kindling!”

But the one that struck me was when someone said “There’s something satisfying about hating someone.” To which someone replied “Yeah, there’s definitely a pay off.”

I can relate to that.  When we seriously don’t like someone we like to think that we hate them because they are awful horrible no good people – and that might be true.  But if I’m totally honest, I have to admit that there also is a payoff to hating someone. Maybe I get to feel like a better person than them, or maybe then I don’t then have to look at what I did wrong in our relationship, or maybe I then don’t have to look at my own awful, horrible, no-goodness.

It feels gross to admit the truth about the payoffs we get from the things that harm us – because to do so feels perilously close to minimizing the very real pain and suffering that come from things that harm us.  But admitting that there is a payoff to hating someone who hurt me is not the same as saying that what that person did was ok. Or that my pain is not real.

And if we are honest, there are payoffs, not just to hating people, but to so many things in life that hurt us.

I mention all of this because in our Gospel text for today Jesus encounters a man who was ill and had been sitting at the pool of Bethesda for 38 years. And honestly this has to be the most insensitive healing text in the Bible, because Jesus asks him the really harsh question: “do you want to be made well?”  and the guy doesn’t even answer the question, when asked if he wants to be made well he says no one will help me into the water and when I try to get in other people get in the way.

I don’t want to be a jerk, but seriously? That’s the guy’s answer? Not to diminish his illness but it makes me wonder what the payoff might have been to staying ill since when asked if he wanted to be made well he didn’t seem very interested.

This is a sticky issue, but this week I started thinking about how hard it is to be honest about the pay offs we get from things we say we want to be free from.  You can ask any alcoholic in recovery about this. When I was still drinking I’d bemoan my hangovers and the fact I couldn’t manage to keep a decent job. But there was a payoff. I got to live without any real responsibility and do as I like no matter how it effected others and the best payoff was that I got to be inebriated whenever life or basic human emotions or the results of my bad decisions started feeling too bad.

It’s not just drunks though.  Not by far. Some of you spend money you don’t have on things you don’t need which boosts your mood until you get the bills which is then so depressing you have to start the whole damn thing over and shop some more just to boost your mood. All while you complain about how in debt you are in. It’s like clutching our bills by the side of the pool at Bethesda and having Jesus walk by and say “Do you really want to be free from the bondage of debt”. Jesus is just the worst some times.

Being honest about what the payoff is to staying in a situation I say I want out of is just more truthfulness than I feel comfortable with.  But that’s the kind of truth Jesus seems to always be putting up in my face when I read texts like this one.

It all reminds me of Paul’s letter to the Romans when he said I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.Some things are so true they hurt a little

But that’s the whole point, I think. Jesus said that we will know the truth and the truth will set us free. I like David Foster Wallis’ take on that.  He said sure the truth will set you free, but not before it’s done with you.

Here’s the problem. In this day and age we are understandably sensitive to the dangers of what we call blaming the victim. And I get this. There are things that happen to us that are surely beyond our control.  I didn’t have much of a part in having an auto-immune disorder when I was 12. Richard does not contribute in anyway to his own deafness. And to imply so is cold hearted.

So don’t mistake me.  What I’m talking about is situations like this:  there were a few months of my life I came down with a “touch” of hypochondria. We were living in Longmont and I was a stay at home mom with a baby and a toddler. I was exhausted all the time and got sick a lot that Winter and I started to think that something was seriously wrong with me.  And secretly, without being totally conscious of it, I really hoped something was wrong with me. Nothing fatal. Maybe like, a totally treatable form of cancer. And then I could kind of get a hall pass.  A break from everything.  A hospital stay started to look awesome.  Someone else would bring me food and I could lay around all day watching tv and taking narcotics. What’s not to love? After ending up in my doctor’s office for the 3^rd time in 6 weeks demanding that he run tests on me since I was sure I was sick…my doctor looked me in the eye and said Nadia, nothing’s wrong with you.  You just have to deal with your life.

As a side note: I was so humiliated that I actually never went back to that doctor. But I also have never since then feared OR hoped that something was wrong with me.  I picked up my mat and walked out of his office.

Of course it’s not always like that. I wonder if that day when Jesus was walking along the pool at Bethesda  if there were many other people who were legitimately sick and lame and beyond help. There must have been.  I wonder if he saw this one guy. I mean, really saw in him what he could not see in himself.  I wonder if Jesus knew that this man had given up and knew that he could be made well. See, it’s a weird healing text because not only does Jesus say “do you want to be made well?” he doesn’t do the normal healing thing he just says “stand up – take your mat and walk”  Stop waiting for someone to carry you. Stop waiting for other people not be in your way.  Why? Because you can. I wonder if Jesus said: nothing’s wrong with you.  You just have to deal with your life.

In the face of Christ this man was confronted with the truth.  And that truth may have stung, like truth so often does, but it also set him free. But the fact that he was able to take his mat and walk away obviously had very little to do with his own desire to be healed. What it had to do with is God’s desire for his healing.

That’s God’s thing. Seeing us. Offering the truth. Restoring that which is broken.  Pursuing our healing long after we’ve given up. Loving us into wholeness. And wanting us to be made new, to be made whole, to take up our mats and walk.

So come to this healing place in front of you– no one has to carry you to this table of grace. And here there is no one to get in your way. Come to this table tonight and bring the mats you think you are stuck laying on and lay them at the feet of your savior who bids you walk and be free. Amen.

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nadiabolzweber/2013/05/do-you-want-to-be-made-well-man-i-wish-jesus-wouldnt-say-things-like-that-a-sermon/