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Showing posts with label empathy. Show all posts

12 July 2025

Prophets Don’t Tweet ‘I Told You So’ 10JUL25


A portion of Highway 1340 is covered by the Guadalupe River in the aftermath of deadly flooding in Kerr County, Texas, U.S., July 7, 2025. REUTERS/Sergio Flores TPX IMAGES OF THE DAY via Reuters Connect

 THE flooding in the Hill Country of central Texas is a horrible, heartbreaking disaster. Too many innocent children, too many families, too many people died terrible deaths. It seems the total death toll may be over 300 souls. There seems to be some among us who feel it appropriate, just a week after the flash floods and before all the dead have been recovered, returned to their families and buried, some feel it appropriate to be laying blame for what happened according to the politics of a district, town, county, government officials politics, how families voted. This is not the time for accusations like "This is what happens when you vote like they did" and "their elected officials governed as the voters instructed". Why this happened will be sorted out at a later time and people are going to have to deal with results then. Now is the time for empathy, for sympathy, for compassion and support. This from Sojourners.....

Prophets Don’t Tweet ‘I Told You So’

Everyone loves the story of Jonah and the whale. It’s got it all: drama, danger, whales — or at least “a big fish” as any Bible nerd will point out. And a tidy little lesson at the end about the importance of obeying God. 

But the story’s post-whale coda is where things get really interesting. After Jonah finally reaches Nineveh — albeit by a very roundabout route — he obeys God’s command to call the city to repentance. Mission accomplished, he finds a spot outside the city walls with a good view, settles in, and waits for God to smite them. He’s hoping for fire and brimstone and is disappointed when none come. God spares the Ninevites.

Jonah wanted to see a wicked city get what it deserved. But life is not that simple. And neither is God. “Is it right for you to be angry?” God asks Jonah (4:4). Jonah doesn’t answer.

As of this writing, the awful floods in Texas have killed at least 120 people, including 27 campers and counselors at Camp Mystic, a private Christian camp. The scope of the tragedy boggles the mind, a tragedy sometimes compounded by the breadth of online reactions. County officials blamed a lack of warning, even though the National Weather Service had issued a flood watch and several flash flood warnings. At least one elected official is blaming weather manipulation. And a disconcerting number of the Republican Party’s critics are blaming Texans themselves. 

But according to a small but noisy group of liberals and leftists, there’s a cruel logic to this tragedy that appears to run thus: Texas is a red state and therefore has thrown its electoral weight behind the Trump administration’s DOGE cuts, which have devastated both the National Weather Service and various science programs designed to study and combat the impacts of climate change. Add a general conservative dismissiveness of government help — even if that help is as straightforward as extreme weather warnings — and there is a small but pervasive idea among some liberals and leftists that Texas brought this on itself. 

This sentiment, while not widespread, is loud enough to notice. “The people in Texas voted for government services controlled by Donald Trump and Greg Abbott,” wrote Ron Filipkowski, editor-in-chief of the progressive digital outlet MediasTouchNews, in a since-deleted tweet. “That is exactly what they (sic) getting.” A pediatrician in Texas lost her job after posting that flood victims got “what they voted for,” adding that she hoped “all visitors, children, non-MAGA voters and pets be safe and dry.”

On the one hand, it is useful to point out when and how our elected leadership fails us. This can help us both hold that leadership accountable and make better decisions in the future. And I suspect in this instance, Texas leaders probably made some decisions they now regret: In 2017, Kerr County considered updating its flood warning system, and then decided it was “too expensive.” State lawmakers then killed a massive investment in early flood warning systems that would have included sirens. All this meant that local officials issued warnings on Facebook, and those warnings would not have been seen by campers, who were required to turn in their phones at the beginning of camp. 

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Crosses hang from a wall with flood marks, following flooding on the Guadalupe River, at Camp Mystic, Hunt, Texas, U.S. July 7, 2025. REUTERS/Marco Bello via Reuters Connect

However, not everything can be chalked up to electoral cause-and-effect. Many people, especially folks on the Left, jumped to conclusions about what political decisions had contributed to this tragedy. For example, while it’s true that DOGE made massive cuts to the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration and the NWS, apparently in the interest of privatizing weather data, it’s not clear those cuts affected the warnings people in Texas did (or didn’t) receive. An inquiry from the BBC that included independent experts concluded “staffing on hand for the Texas floods appears to have been adequate.” We need to hold our leaders responsible, yes, but we also need to be precise about where blame falls.

Setting aside inquiries about who is responsible (and the political nonsense of lumping together the diverse array of voters in Texas into a single electoral outcome), let’s back up: If your first reaction to hearing that a natural disaster has left dozens of men, women, and children dead is a snarky tweet about voting patterns, then your heart is in a very sick place and you need to get it right, full stop. Which brings us back to the story of Jonah — and any of us who may be tempted to sit outside of Nineveh and wait for God’s justice to rain down.

The Bible tells us that God spared the Ninevites and “to Jonah this seemed very wrong, and he became angry.” His anger only grew when a plant that he’d been using for shade was eaten by a worm (always good to remember that a whale is not the only animal God uses to make a point to Jonah). “Is it right for you to be angry about this plant?” God asks Jonah. Jonah stubbornly insists that it is. 

But the Lord said, “You have been concerned about this plant, though you did not tend it or make it grow. It sprang up overnight and died overnight. And should I not have concern for the great city of Nineveh, in which there are more than a hundred and twenty thousand people who cannot tell their right hand from their left — and also many animals?”

This is, absurdly, the end of the story. We don’t know how Jonah responded to this strange injunction, but we can gather the point: God’s concern for people (and animals!) is immense and is not conditional on how much they do or don’t know about the world around them. God doesn’t refute or condemn Jonah’s anger but instead directs him toward a larger truth: God’s concern is always with life, all life. No matter where they live. No matter the reputation of their community. No matter how they vote. 

And should any of us find ourselves tempted to celebrate destruction as a just desert for living in a red state, the larger truth staring us in the face is the same: We are all beloved by God and thus inherently connected to our neighbors, whatever their party affiliation or wherever they live. “The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe,” wrote James Baldwin. “And I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this may be incapable of morality.” Zen master Yasutani Roshi put it even more simply: “The fundamental delusion of humanity is to suppose that I am here and you are out there.”

Your life is one thread woven into a rich tapestry. We are not called to sit outside the city and hope for judgment. We are called to go in.

READ: Christians Must Resist Conspiracy Theories After Hurricanes


26 August 2024

VERSE & VOICE FROM SOJOURNERS 26AUG24

 

SojoMail

Verse of the day

“Because the poor are despoiled, because the needy groan, I will now rise up,” says the Lord; “I will place them in the safety for which they long.”
- Psalm 12:5

Voice of the day

If our politics don’t prioritize the most vulnerable, then what are we doing? Compassion isn’t weakness—it reveals our interconnectedness.
- Drew Hart

Prayer of the day

May we not fall prey to the whims of partisan politics. We pray that our politics are just, that we remember those who are most vulnerable and seek their well-being.

08 November 2013

Sleeping Stranger Subway Picture On Q Train Defines Empathy And Is A Lesson In Being Good 6NOV13

IT is Friday, the start of the weekend for many, and here is a good story to start the weekend with. Don't pay attention to those who mention race as the main focus of the story, just consider the simple compassion and empathy that was shown, and no doubt appreciated. As Isaac Thiel said (responding to all the fuss being made over the pic and story) “I would love for people to use this as a lesson to just be good to each other,”. From HuffPost....
Compassion.


sleeper
This man has it.
When Isaac Theil let a sleepy stranger take a little catnap on his shoulder, it was because "I simply remembered the times my own head would bop on someone’s shoulder because I was so tired after a long day," he recounted to Tova Ross of Tablet Magazine.
Another subway rider was so struck by Theil's nonchalant empathy that he snapped a picture and put it on Reddit, from which it was then posted to Facebook by Charidy.
Redditor Braffination wrote, "Heading home on the Q train yesterday when this young black guy nods off on the shoulder of a Jewish man. The man doesn't move a muscle, just lets him stay there. After a minute, I asked the man if he wanted me to wake the kid up, but he shook his head and responded, 'He must have had a long day, let him sleep. We've all been there, right?'"
Theil himself has been completely surprised at the attention he's received for his small act of kindness, as the photo has been shared over 20,000 times on Facebook.

“Maybe the photo wouldn’t have become so popular if people weren’t seeing a Jewish man with a yarmulke and a black man in a hood, and because they might not necessarily correlate the two,” speculated Theil to Tablet. “But there is only one reason that I didn’t move, and let him continue sleeping, and that has nothing to do with race. He was simply a human being who was exhausted, and I knew it and happened to be there and have a big shoulder to offer him.”
Rabbi Bradley Hirschfield, president of The National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, was moved by Theil's recollection of his own fatigue as an explanation for his kindness, and told The Huffington Post that it was a perfect demonstration of human empathy. Hirschfield said, "To be able to draw on past hardship to soften our hearts towards others is one of the most repeated commandments to the Jewish people, and is the core of many spiritual traditions."
“I would love for people to use this as a lesson to just be good to each other,” Theil said to Tablet.
Seconded.

CORRECTION: This article has been amended to omit the comments of a man who claimed that he was the subway sleeper. Charidy has responded here.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/06/sleeping-stranger-subway-picture_n_4228826.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular 

11 May 2012

On 'Boyish Pranks' And Half-Assed Apologies: Mitt, You Have No Empathy 11MAY12

MORE on mitt romney's high school bullying and more importantly on his half-assed apology for his teen aged "hijinks and pranks" that show a level of cruelty, lack of empathy and lack of compassion that is being exhibited during the repiglican / tea-bagger primaries. Some my disagree with the charge of cruelty, but if you really consider the way he callously disregards the severely negative impacts of his policy platform on women and the poor and working and middle classes the only way to describe his attitude is cruel. From Crooks And Liars...

Isn't it amazing? This incident was so brutal that it still haunts the memories of most of the participants -- just not Mitt Romney. Apparently it just slipped his mind, just one more "boyish prank." I could do some armchair analysis of the type of personality that is so lacking in empathy at such an early age, but it would only be conjecture. So I'll let the incident speak for itself.
We've all known Golden Boys who felt entitled to do whatever they wanted, and so rarely suffered consequences. We've also known their enablers, who were often just as scared of these bullies as their victims were, and who carry the weight of their inaction with them.
Phillip Maxwell, an attorney in Michigan, confirmed to CBS News that the incident with John Lauber is accurately described in The Washington Post piece. Maxwell was one of the Post's four on-the-record sources. A fifth asked not to be named. Maxwell says the only thing not accurate is that the Post reporter said the incident occurred in a dorm room, but it happened in a common room.
"Mitt was a prankster, there's no doubt about it. This thing with Lauber wasn't a prank. This was, well, as a lawyer, it was an assault. It was an assault and a battery. And I'm sure that John Lauber carried it with him for the rest of his life," Maxwell told CBS News.
The Post's article details Romney's teen-age years spent at Cranbrook, a prestigious prep school in Michigan, and focuses on the many pranks played by the future presidential contender. Several were harmless but others are remembered as cruel, insensitive or frightening to the victims.
Maxwell, who is not a Republican and wasn't planning to vote for Romney, says "this isn't a politically motivated thing for me. I got asked questions by [Post reporter] Jason Horowitz and I responded honestly to him. I didn't decide to bring this thing up. But I think it probably is relevant."
"I've carried this story with me a long time. It was very disturbing. I think that view is shared by everyone involved in it," Maxwell says. "It just was a black mark on my character that I didn't stop it."
The hair-cutting incident, according to The Washington Post, was confirmed by five of Romney's classmates who described the event as "senseless, stupid, idiotic" and "vicious." Candy Porter was the victim of a well-known prank in which Romney and his Cranbrook friends posed as cops, complete with fake siren and badges, and pretended to bust some friends and their dates. Porter told the Post she was "terrified."
Romney was also remembered as having shouted "Atta girl!" when another closeted gay student tried to speak up in the classroom.
Romney said he did not recall that incident. "You know there are a lot of times, my guess is at a boys' school when one of the boys do something and people say 'hey atta girl,'... I had no idea that he was gay," Romney explained when asked about the comment. He again apologized for having offended anyone, saying no harm was intended.
When Kilmeade asked if The Post's article was meant to show that he grew up in an intolerant environment, Romney was quick to say during Thursday's interview with Brian Kilmeade that he did not, and he pointed out that the sexual orientation of the people referenced in the story was not known when they were all in high school. "I had no idea that this person might have been gay," Romney said, "and the article points out I participated in a lot of hijinks and pranks in high school and some may have gone too far and for that I apologize."
"I had no idea this person might have been gay." Really, Mittens? First of all, I don't believe it. Nope. A group of adolescent boys who didn't notice that another boy committed the crime of being "different"? Second, even if I did believe it (which I don't), I'd point out that your reaction to someone's harmless differences was to impose your own values on them.
You're not a nice person, Mitt Romney. You're mean, you lack empathy, you don't seem to care about anything unless it affects people who are Just Like You.
That's not what we need in the White House. Not now, not ever.
http://crooksandliars.com/susie-madrak/boyish-pranks-and-half-assed-apologie